YouMatter – Your Sanctuary
About

A calm space where you don’t have to pretend.

YouMatter is a small, founder-led project building a private, science-informed chat that listens first and speaks gently. We ship slowly, write clearly, and avoid hype.

Privacy-first IFS / CBT-aware prompts No metrics theater
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Team

One person, one intention: reduce threat; increase care.

Hassan

Hassan — Founder & Lead Developer

Security-minded full-stack. Prompts and product.

Built the prototype and guardrails. Focus on safer language, clean interfaces, and doing less by default.

Full-stack developer CBT/ACT Listening Prompt safety
Principles

How we build and what we refuse.

Threat-reducing language

We avoid moralizing, diagnosis cosplay, and accidental shame triggers.

Minimal data, maximum agency

No dark patterns. Anonymous by default. Clear tradeoffs.

Small, truthful scope

We don’t promise what we can’t deliver. No user counts until they exist.

Path forward

We build slowly, carefully, and in the open.

— Spark

Prototype focused on language that reduces threat.

— Two-person team

Emotional experience audits become part of the process.

— Private build

Hardening guardrails and polishing flows.

Next — Invite-only beta

Opt-in outcomes, session summaries, gentle routines.

Tech

Privacy by design.

Local-first where possible. Clear data paths. Narrow permissions.

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Say hello

We read every note.

Start a gentle chat